Thinking About. . . Super Bowl Commercials

February 8th, 2010 | Posted in Thinking About

I, like most other US Americans not living in New Orleans or Indianapolis, have been thinking today more about the commercials from last night’s Super Bowl than the football. I watched live only about a quarter and a half of the game, but I’ve watched pretty much all of the commercials. (Thank you, Hulu.)

About a month ago I heard professional, Richmond-based advertiser, Aaron Dotson, reflect on the powers and dangers of advertising. He said commercials are problematic when they reinforce stereotypes. As an example he described the common trope of the ‘Dumb Dad syndrome.’ (An example is the MetroPCS commercial where a guy who can’t even get a cell phone contract right is berated and shamed by Indian men.)

Last night’s Super Bowl commercials offer insightful commentary on the current state of American manhood. The commercials tell a story. (The most transparent example is the Unilever Dove commercial—a favorite, partly because it doesn’t reduce manhood to easy stereotypes.) The commercials offer a way for us to make sense of the world and suggest how we should live in it. For men, the picture is not flattering.

Men are spineless, skirt-wearing, accommodating, and manipulative. They eschew pants. And they are slaves to their appetites—whether for Denny’s Grand Slams, sex, fast cars, or cheap beer. They pretend and lie (about liking book clubs, about shopping, about their own deaths) to allure women and to secure alcohol. Men are insensitive—whether teasing dogs or ogling moms.  And, at least according to ETrade, even infantile men (a redundancy in Madison Avenue’s mind?) are deceptive and unfaithful.

My favorite commercial from the Super Bowl was Google’s Search On. It was simple, beautiful, and (unlike most of the commercials) demonstrated the product. Better than others and with visual simplicity, it told a story of manhood—from studying abroad in Paris to falling in love to starting a family. With humor and grace it told a winsome story made possible by Google.

Men who accept the Christian story can watch, identify with, and be entertained by these commercials. But we must not allow this picture of masculinity to define us and shape us. Instead, we look to God and His son Jesus (the exact representation of God) to understand who we are and how we should live in this world.

Most fundamentally we find identity as sons of God, loved deeply by Him and transformed evermore into the character of Jesus Christ. Real men aren’t reduced to pandering to satisfy their base appetites. They’ve been satisfied fully by God and are beginning to live more and more as responsible stewards in God’s world, agents of renewal in our communities, bearers of truth in confusing times, and servants to all they encounter.

The Super Bowl commercials are selling a story. But we must tell the story.

City Church still on for Sunday, February 7th

February 7th, 2010 | Posted in General Info

City Church will still be holding its regular service this afternoon at 4pm for those of you able to make it in. We hope to see you there!

Drive safely and stay warm!

City Church Announcements, 2.2.10

February 2nd, 2010 | Posted in Events

Just a few announcements this week…

Giving Receipts
Giving receipts for 2009 were put in the mail today (Tuesday). If you do not receive yours by the beginning of next week, please email Val (val [at] citychurchrva.com).

City Church Basics, 2/12 & 2/13

Erik will be offering another City Church Basics session on Friday evening, February 12 from 7-9:30, and Saturday February 13 from 9-noon at the church office (1520 W. Main Street, Suite 102). City Church Basics explains who we are as a church and what it means to be a member. It is a necessary step towards formally joining the church, although membership is not required. Please confirm with Erik (erik [at] citychurchrva.com) if you plan on attending.

Bridal shower for Kelli Ziemer, 2/20
Ladies, please join us as we celebrate the upcoming wedding of Kelli Ziemer and wish her well! The shower will take place at 3pm on Saturday, February 20 at 1405 Severn Road (Richmond, VA 23229). Please RSVP to Ruthie Byrne at rmbyrne [at] richmond.edu or 804-399-1043. Contact Ruthie or Ann Douglas Enghauser (memento.ade [at] gmail.com) with questions.

Small groups
City Church offers several small groups at various times throughout the week for Bible study, prayer, and friendship. You are always invited to join. Contact Erik (erik [at] citychurchrva.com) if you have questions about small groups.

Tuesday evenings, led by Richard and Eniko Rumrill (randerumrill [at] gmail.com)
Tuesdays 7:30 PM led by Erik (erik [at] citychurchrva.com)
Thursdays, 7:15 PM led by Kelli Ziemer (kelliziemer [at] gmail.com)
Thursday evenings, led by James and Jennifer Murphy (jamesmurphyp [at] gmail.com)
Women’s Group, Wednesday, 7 PM, led by Lindsey Stack (lindseystack [at] yahoo.com)
Men’s Group, Sunday Mornings, led by Blake Stack (blakestack [at] yahoo.com)

Have a great week and drive safely!

City Church still on for this afternoon

January 31st, 2010 | Posted in Uncategorized

City Church will still be holding its regular service this afternoon at 4pm for those of you able to make it in. We hope to see you there!

Drive safely and stay warm!

City Church Announcements, 1.26.10

January 26th, 2010 | Posted in Events

Prayer for Jake Lyell, TONIGHT at 7pm
Members of City Church will be spending some time this evening praying for Jake Lyell before he heads back to Africa. James and Jennifer Murphy will be hosting this event (700 Stockton Street, Apt. 207). Please email Jennifer with questions (jennifer.c.murphy [at] gmail.com).

Mercy Fund, 1/31
On the final Sunday of each month we take up a special mercy fund offering. Whatever is given will be kept separate from our general budget and will be used to aid those in our congregation, and in our community, who have emergency needs. Please prayerfully consider what you might give. But don’t feel that you have to give — it really is an opportunity for regular attenders to invest tangibly in what God is doing here.

City Church Basics
Erik will be offering another City Church Basics session in the near future. City Church Basics explains who we are as a church and what it means to be a member. It is a necessary step towards formally joining the church, although membership is not required. If you’re interested in City Church Basics, please contact Erik (erik [at] citychurchrva.com).

Ministry Opportunities
If you’re interested in getting more involved with City Church, there are several ministry opportunities available. Contact the people listed below for more information.

Community – Kelli Ziemer (kelliziemer [at] hotmail.com)  & Jennifer Walker (jennifer.p.walker [at] gmail.com)

Facilities – Daniel Warshaw (danielCwarshaw [at] gmail.com)

Family – Sarah Bonkovsky (sarahbonkovsky [at] gmail.com)

Finances – Paul Agnello (saul2paul [at] gmail.com)

Mercy/Justice – Blake Stack (blakestack [at] gmail.com)

Missions – Jennifer Murphy (jennifer.c.murphy [at] gmail.com)

Music – Jon-Marc Haden (jhaden [at] infocus.org)

Vision – Ross Catrow (rcatrow [at] gmail.com)

Worship – Ruthie Byrne (rmbyrne [at] richmond.edu)